A Chaplain A well trained chaplain will give you space to express whatever feelings you are experiencing. Having someone to “dump” your worries and woes on/with relieves you of some of the stresses you are experiencing. Release of stress, in turn, aids physical, emotional and spiritual healing. Voicing your concerns may help you to see feelings, emotions, your life, or other people in a different way rather than allowing the emotions of an event or the course of events to rule your entire life. Once relieved the idea of Peace of mind can grow within you. A well trained chaplain listens with his or her heart to your greatest concerns of the moment. This kind of trained compassionate listening keeps him/her from making judgments about you or your situation. The trained chaplain will keep things you share confidential. What you can expect from a good chaplain: Confidentiality. Good listening skills. Regular visits. Support for individuals and families. Linking individuals and families with staff. Religious services, sacraments, and prayer. Information and guidance regarding medical ethics questions, living wills, organ donation, life support decisions, and other questions. Information on support groups to meet various needs of individuals and their loved ones. Grief ministry in dealing with loss. Hope and encouragement. When you meet with a chaplain, be as honest, open, and specific as you can. Say what is on your mind and in your heart. A well trained chaplain may not cure your illness or repair your injury, but he/she may help relieve your anxiety. A chaplain seeks to bring you comfort and peace as well as to celebrate your joys and victories. (end)